📍 Part 1: Logon ke saath gehra connection kaise banayein?
- Criticism mat karo, complain mat karo
- Sincere tareef karo
- Doosre ke interest mein dilchaspi lo
📍 Part 2: People ko pasand kaise aayein?
- Muskuraiye – bina bole impact kariye
- Naam yaad rakhiye – har naam ek emotion hota hai
- Be a Good Listner – bolne se zyada sunna powerful hai
- Doosron ke interests mein genuine ruchi dikhaiye
- Doosron ko important feel karaiye – sacchai ke saath
📍 Part 3: Logon ko apni soch ki taraf kaise laayein?
- Arguments se bachiye – prove karna nahi, samajhna hai
- Galti maan lijiye – ego se nahi, empathy se jeetiye
- Dosti bhare tareeke se baat shuru kijiye
- Doosre ko “haan” bolne ke liye inspire kijiye
- Unhe bolne dijiye – apne solutions pe unka haq banaiye
- Samne wale ki nazar se sochiye
- Unke emotions samjhiye – aur sympathy dikhaiye
- Unke higher motives ko chunniye
- Apni baat ko drama, story, example se impactful banaiye
- Challenge do – log uske laayak banne ki koshish karte hain
📍 Part 4: Leadership Through Influence
- Shikayat se pehle taareef kijiye
- Galti ko indirectly point kijiye
- Apni galti accept karo pehle
- Order mat do – sawaal poochho
- Insaan ki izzat bacha ke, sudhaar batayein
- Har chhoti improvements ki taareef karo
- Logo ko ek aisi pehchaan do jiske laayak banne ke liye wo khud sudharen
- Encourage karo – unhe khud pe vishwas dilao
- Galti ko chhoti aur easily fixable bana kar present karo
❤️ Agar ye list helpful lagi, comment karo: “I’ll apply ___ today.”
💬 Apna favourite principle zaroor likhna!
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